{"id":3388,"date":"2003-06-17T22:58:00","date_gmt":"2003-06-17T22:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/2003\/06\/17\/the-black-hole-that-is-my-blog\/"},"modified":"2003-06-17T22:58:00","modified_gmt":"2003-06-17T22:58:00","slug":"the-black-hole-that-is-my-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/2003\/06\/17\/the-black-hole-that-is-my-blog\/","title":{"rendered":"the black hole that is my blog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh also. I was reading a PRD (Product Requirements Document) the other day and one of the features was actually described like this:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;allowing u to control&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>For <strong>FUCK <\/strong>sake! <\/p>\n<p>Really pleased to hear <i>The Shield<\/i> returns for the second season on the 1st of July.<\/p>\n<p>Finished off <i>Chasm City<\/i>, and I enjoyed it a hell of a lot. Started off <i>Redemption Ark<\/i> the sequel to <i>Revelation Space<\/i> and I&#8217;m looking forward to getting into it. Sat in the park for a while listening to <i>Hail To the Thief<\/i> and reading. It was good, it was calm. If the weather keeps going like this I could see myself doing a lot of that.<\/p>\n<p><i>CSI<\/i> isn&#8217;t holding my interest as much these days, they need to go back to the stories where the main characters are interesting and playing off each other. Without that, there isn&#8217;t really any compelling viewing. The forensic stuff may have been enough to get the show started well but it needs to be built on.<\/p>\n<p>I need a bike. I really do. In weather like this watching people sail by in the park is really making me miss my bike. I had better space to ride it along the coast back in Dublin but the park is a good start here and the riverside does give quite a bit of a straight line.<\/p>\n<p>As I was walking across the river this evening to get home, I saw someone who looked very like someone I use to know a few lifetimes ago. It got me to thinking about a few things from back then and one in particular stood out.<\/p>\n<p>A few years ago, a relative of mine was getting married. This one is going to be kinda vague for what will I hope be obvious reasons.  I was at the wedding (not the wedding proper, but the afters), as were my parents and quite a bit of my extended family. I didn&#8217;t really want to be there, I had originally but that all changed.<\/p>\n<p>I found out something which I didn&#8217;t like (and still don&#8217;t like) and it well it annoyed and disappointed me. The two people getting married had been together for a long time, years and years as I recall. They had also just bought a house, or were in the process of buying a house. <\/p>\n<p>Well, as it turns out there was a third person involved in the relationship and as it happens it&#8217;s a small world. So I knew all about the third person and indeed a lot more detail than I had ever wanted to know. One of the things which really got to me was that I knew it wasn&#8217;t over. <\/p>\n<p>It all seemed so pointless. They have a kid now and I hope for their sake it&#8217;s all working out. I&#8217;ve not heard from anyone to the otherwise so I hope so.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m reminded of someone else. I only met her a few times, she was a friend of a friend. A close friend of a really close friend. She was young, smart, and really really cute.  Last time I saw her was at a night out and she looked stunning, absolutely stunning. Heads turned, perhaps it helped that she was not wearing much, but heads turned. <\/p>\n<p>Anyway she had a boyfriend. Well, actually she didn&#8217;t. She had someone else&#8217;s boyfriend (perhaps even husband I&#8217;m not sure but I think it could very well have been). They didn&#8217;t get to spend much time together and while he kept talking about leaving his other half for her, it was never going to home and I think she knew it. So this guy had whomever he had and this stunning girl who any number of people would have killed to just date for a while.<\/p>\n<p>She really really liked him tho. It was a touchy subject for quite a while but I do remember somehow I was talking to her about it once and she was fairly upset, no-one could understand what she was doing with him and she got some grief about it. She knew what she was doing with him, she really really liked him<\/p>\n<p>She deserves a hell of a lot better.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>I was also thinking today that I really need to get an address book up to date. I don&#8217;t have one. I have AOL and my old outlook address book for email and my phone for phone numbers and I&#8217;m completely useless at noting snail mail addresses so sitting down and putting the time into saving everything somewhere would be time well spent. I&#8217;m thinking PDA so I can sync it onto a few computers and aswell as that I want to export it onto AOL in someway so I can have all the details stored on the host. In theory then I should be able to get anyone&#8217;s details at anytime. I shall have to look into spending some time doing this.<\/p>\n<p>I saw something the other day which I found a little scary to be honest. I saw some numbers for a personal ad site and well I was impressed too. How many people actually use these things? The numbers were quite specific in terms of country base and there were more than 3 people using them. I know Friendster is huge but they do a good job at not coming off as a personals site. Hmm I don&#8217;t really know where I&#8217;m going with this but I always thought there was a certain stigma associated with them. I guess that&#8217;s a lot less in this internet age which makes a hell of a lot of sense. Given that I&#8217;m talking to someone who I met online about this right now I guess there isn&#8217;t really any stigma I can throw against them without coming out as some sort of hypocrite.<\/p>\n<p>The phrase perfect contradiction just popped into my head for some reason. I think it has some context with the word hypocrite. I did say that somewhat tongue in cheek as I&#8217;m sure I am a hypocrite in some ways. Anyway that was a random interruption to our regular programming.<\/p>\n<p>Now a less random interruption as I think it is time to leave it for the night.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh also. I was reading a PRD (Product Requirements Document) the other day and one of the features was actually described like this: &#8220;allowing u to control&#8221;. For FUCK sake! Really pleased to hear The Shield returns for the second season on the 1st of July. Finished off Chasm City, and I enjoyed it a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/2003\/06\/17\/the-black-hole-that-is-my-blog\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;the black hole that is my blog&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3388"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3388\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davebushe.net\/words\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}